When Harry Met Sally

The tagline for When Harry Met Sally asks, "Can two friends sleep together [or 'cudle' together] and still love each other in the morning?" I have a friend who uses this movie to support her argument that men and women can't be 'just friends'. I have a hard time accepting this argument. Maybe because I'm idealistic. Or maybe because I'm stubborn. I don't like the idea that I might be wrong. In the past year, I've developed a lot of close friendships with guys. And for this reason, I have trouble accepting the 'Harry Met Sally' theory.
I can understand the reasoning behind this supposition. For me, being friends with a girl is easier than being friends with a guy simply because I won't have to worry about having an attraction to my girl friends. Whether you are relieved or disappointed, that's just the way it is.
The attraction, sexual chemistry, or whatever you want to call it, can make a guy/girl friendship more complicated. But I like having friends of the opposite sex. Guys provide new perspectives, interactions, etc. As I've gotten older, I feel I've learned better how to develop relationships with guys. Sure, I have moments when I ask myself "Is this more than just friendship?" And I'll admit that there are sometimes when I would like for it to be. And even if it at some point, we dance around the idea of a dating relationship, it doesn't necessarily end the friendship. It might change, but I think most friendships go through changes.
I guess it is a fine line. But it is worth the confusion, because in the end I have some amazing guys in my life. In response to the tagline, I say yes. It just makes things a little more interesting.